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Megan & Lyle • A couple inspired by the FIRE movement.

At the onset of summer 2019, we embarked on our journey towards financial independence (FI) when we recognized the advantages of homeownership over renting. By investing in our own property instead of paying someone else’s mortgage, we realized how cost-effective it could be. This decision turned out to be the best one we’ve made thus far. However, at that time, we faced the challenge of limited income, making it difficult to afford living expenses on our own. To overcome this obstacle, we made a conscious choice to find a compatible roommate who could share the costs, enabling us to secure the house and significantly reduce our living expenses. This pivotal moment became the catalyst for embracing our new FI lifestyle.

The positive impact of financial independence on our lives has been profound, prompting us to feel a sense of obligation to share our insights and knowledge with others. Hence, we decided to start this blog as a platform to educate and inspire a fresh perspective on money management. Through our articles, we aim to provide practical tips, valuable resources, and informed recommendations that will bring you closer to achieving financial freedom.

Join us on this transformative journey and empower yourself with the tools and knowledge to create a brighter financial future.

MEGAN

Since the age of 14, I knew what I wanted to do with my life. Combining my love for art and proficiency in design software, I embarked on a path that merged creativity and technology. As I excelled in creative subjects, the booming tech industry seemed like the ideal pursuit, offering stability and meeting my parents’ expectations. And for a while, it did provide the security I desired—until the unexpected disruption of the pandemic.

Following college, I followed the conventional route, immersing myself in the corporate world while embracing the millennial lifestyle of carefree spending. Nights out, extravagant trips, and impulsive purchases were the norm. Sharing a crowded living space with roommates was a temporary compromise. However, our financial well-being needed a reality check.

Dave Ramsey’s book fueled our fire to reevaluate and transform our financial habits. Eliminating credit cards became a challenging but necessary step toward financial independence (FI). Stories of people breaking free from paycheck-to-paycheck living and burdensome debt resonated with us, igniting a desire for a life of freedom and prioritizing what truly matters.

The pandemic brought unexpected change when I faced a layoff. Surprisingly, my partner saw it as an opportunity for transformation, understanding my dissatisfaction with the corporate world. Despite the uncertainty, our diligent financial habits provided a sense of security during this transition.

Now, we embark on a journey toward FI, embracing authenticity and supporting each other along the way. Join us as we share experiences, lessons learned, and the transformation from corporate burnout to a life of financial independence and fulfillment.

LYLE

Megan & Lyle: March Engagement Session at Fells Point in Baltimore

As a licensed Maryland real estate agent, my business revolves around real estate. However, my initial passion was always in teaching and education. Growing up, I aspired to be a teacher, drawn to the idea of helping others, coaching football, and indulging in my love for history—the perfect trifecta. The thought of having holidays and summers off only solidified my decision. Teaching seemed like a natural choice when envisioning my future.

During my time at Frostburg State University, I lived the typical life of a Division III college football player. It was there that I found myself, made lifelong friends, and met my future wife and business partner, Megan. After graduating college with academic and football accolades, I followed the typical post-graduation pattern—accumulating debt by moving to a neighborhood in Baltimore City, buying my first brand-new car, and financing my expenses through credit cards. I began my career as a 6th-grade Social Studies teacher, trying to keep up with the financial demands.

As time went on, I took on additional roles as an Athletic Director for the middle school and coached football at my hometown high school. However, I soon realized that teaching wasn’t what I had initially imagined. The income didn’t align with the hours invested, and it bothered me to see teachers with less workload being paid more based on education level and seniority. It prompted me to make a logical decision—I pursued a master’s degree, accumulating more student loans, with the goal of becoming an administrator for increased earning potential.

With growing frustration, my mental and physical health began to suffer. I experienced weight loss and sank into depression, which made me irritable towards those around me. It was during a staff meeting in February 2020, just before the COVID shutdown, that my Assistant Principal made a statement that resonated deeply: “I know everyone is struggling, and the students are difficult this year, but where are you going to go? You’re stuck here, and we all have bills to pay, so we just have to push through it.” It hit me—I felt trapped. I had gradually increased my spending to match my income, and I realized there were more important things in life than a draining 9-to-5 job.

This realization marked the beginning of my journey towards financial independence (FI) and the desire to share what I’ve learned for the benefit of others. I am genuinely enjoying the process and being open about my life more than I ever imagined. My goal is to share this newfound passion with as many people as possible. Together with Megan, we will take you along our path, based on our LoveOfFI, as we navigate the pursuit of FI and strive for a life filled with purpose and financial freedom.